I don't think anyone on this site is a jerk but I do know that some make decisions without understanding all of the risks involved. Brakes are a big one and I have read a few scary stories on that. The problem is never when everything is going well it is always when something doesn't. I don't ever want to read about anyone getting hurt or killed because they or someone else was driving way overloaded. I am glad to have found this board and I have gotten so much good info that will help me when I get my rig. I had never heard of GVW before this site and it is only through the posts I've read that I now know what it is and how important it is for my safety. I could have easily been one of the folks who got overweight (okay I've put on a few pounds) and not known until I was committed in a set up and then what....
I hope I didn't offend but I do believe it is very important to follow the guidelines as best we can. The life we save may be one of the wonderful folks we have met right here.