I run Bilstein's & Fox's and will NEVER go back to a twin-tube type of damper. Twin-tubes never fail like this because they over-heat and fade away before they get the chance to hurt themselves. Before you give up on a superior design you might try employing two, purpose valved dampers per wheel.
The issue is the heavy axles, particularly the front being coil sprung. If you are blowing them up you're either going too fast for the dampers that you have, or you don't have enough damper to start with, or both. Of course Bilstein would put such a caveat in their literature, they'd be replacing abused dampers willy-nilly if they didn't.
Friends with Early Broncos (lighter front axle under coil springs) used at speed on week-long desert exploration/camp trips use 2.5" body, 5/8" shaft Fox's to keep those suspensions under control. They're not going pre-run or race speeds, but they're not lolly-gagging around either. If it takes that much damper to control a lighter axle then trying to go that fast in a full size with a single 51XX series damper per tire is asking for a failure. Just trying to keep their dust in sight is probably still asking for a failure.
I put 5165's on our '96 CTD. If they don't perform or fail I'll step up to a set of remote reservoir 7100's and use the 5165's valve stacks as the jumping-off point for the damper tune.
Hello ntsqd, you have completely made my point of this thread. Don't go out and buy a set of 5100's which are so heavily promoted by 4wd shops and expect them to work on washboard roads. It was the techs at Bilstein who noted to me that their lit states, "for light off road use only". Yet due to heavy sales promotion by retailers, these are sold in mass to off roaders. Even the NPS was sold many sets only to have to replace them with twin tubes. There's performance and there's reliability. I always choose reliability, might save a life one day.
Yes, I totally get it, I am aware that the twin tube design dampening fades and decreases under heat but I've spent 40 years on the worst washboard imaginable. I've done thousands of miles of the African Sahara, all over Baja and mainland Mexico, all over the USA and Canadian arctic, hundreds of thousands of miles, with never a single shock failure, I always got from point A to point B without oil spraying all over my truck. My Bilsteins blew at 25 mph with less than 1,000 miles on them. Sorry, I am not going to sink myself even deeper into the same design.
As an ex professional mechanic, I used to be all about mods and race parts. In my distant travels I have learned that most failures in the field result from straying from original design and especially overloading above payload.
I understand your shocks with much experimentation and many hundreds of dollars spent won't fade like mine will. I've made it to 56 years old using inexpensive, 100% reliable twin tube design. I think I can go another 20 years till I fall over dead. I suppose if trucks was my #1 hobby, I'd maybe sink that kind of money into shocks. I have too much on my plate already; rental units, fiddles, mandolins, son's college education, girlfriend's health issues, travel, and spare time as my hobbies. Damn! I wish life was simple again!