I think this is resolved, I took it on a quick drive down 5mi of highway in the 70mph zone and all appeared well. Next trip out will confirm things one way or another.
Short version: Appears one of the tires that was on the rear had a bunch of fix a flat in it from the previous owner that I was unaware of and it was throwing off the balance some.
Long version:
I took the truck in two Saturdays ago for 4 tire balance and rotation. Instead of taking the 1hr they promised they took over 2hrs but they gave me a $20 discount. I leave the place and loop out on the highway to check things out and I can't even go 55mph without major steering wheel vibrations. I get off and go home thinking I tossed a weight or something. I called to let them know I'd be back in.
The following Monday I was near the place so I took it in but they were booked for the evening but checked all the lug torques to make sure there wasn't any issues (however the scheduler did this not the tech).
The following Friday I go back in and drop off my truck and head out for a run down a nearby trail. I get back and get called in to see an issue. Apparently all the lugs are bulged and a socket no longer fits. The stock lugs are cheap two piece designs (insert dodge joke here
) in which a decorative metal cap is pressed over the lug. Well those caps got spun/deformed and the flat part of the hex had lifted up (remember when the scheduler checked the torques and not the mechanic, he likely used an over sized socket). There were no managers around, it was too late to take care of things that evening, and I was all sweaty from running so I told them to drop my truck and I'd be back. We still haven't approached why I have vibrations and now all my lugs are trashed.
Next morning I called dodge to get a cost on lugs (even though I was going to buy solid 1 piece after market lugs but I needed to point out its actually cheaper to do so when I went back in) at they wanted $7 something per lug for those pieces of crap. $1.75 a lug later for the after market ones I was back at the tire place with 20 new lugs, a receipt for reimbursement, and was chatting with the manager. Grabbed my bike out of the back, told them to have fun getting the old ones off and told them to call me when they figured things out. Pedaled home and watched the tour de france till they called and filled me in on things. They got all the lugs changed out and it turns out one of the tires that was rotated to the front was giving a lot of balancing issues and then they discovered it had a ton of fix a flat in it that was sluffing around and throwing the machine off. So they cleaned it out and got everything all mounted up again. Why the original tech didn't notice this issue I don't know but now things appear to be in good shape and I've got solid lug nuts to avoid future issues.