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Now, what if I want to have the option of running my DC camper needs like the fridge while driving when charging either battery via the truck? Sounds like another breaker switch...
The truck charging was taken into account in the last solution proposed. The battery switch will allow charging either or both batteries from the truck if it is running. I also assumed you will have a standard truck/camper battery isolator/relay installed. The DC panel and fridge are wired to the Diehard which is helped by solar (which should have a protection fuse anyway, but can be out of the way, and within several inches of the battery). So you can select the switch to the Diehard and all loads run off the truck when running, solar charged battery when not, Optima is isolated in standby. Flip the switch and the Optima gets charged by the truck, and the loads run off the solar+Diehard exclusively.
The fuse/breaker manipulation was only required for the odd case where you wanted to solar charge the Optima rather than the Diehard. In most cases I do not think you would bother though, just run the truck (or find AC) if things are that far gone.
Seems like this covers 99% of your needs stated. If not them might as well get matched 6V golf cart batteries. :-)
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